With over a decade of advances in the field of financial socialization, it can be difficult to find exactly what you’re looking for advice on. What have financial researchers learned about how money impacts families and how to teach children about finances? This article summarizes a decade of family financial socialization research,[1]
Many emerging adults are struggling with their finances, which can lead to more stress and worse mental illness.[2]
Financial socialization theory states that family interactions such as parent financial modeling (what parents’ financial example teaches their children), parent-child financial discussion, and parents providing hands-on learning opportunities for their children with money all contribute to children’s later healthy financial behaviors.[3]
While parents are the most impactful mode of financial socialization, children also learn from numerous other sources including but not limited to financial literacy classes, financial books, and financial media. Research shows that financial socialization has such a significant impact on later financial behaviors because financial socialization affects children’s core values, perceived needs, life expectations.3 These views are then directly associated with healthy financial behaviors, which, in turn, lead to better financial well-being, higher satisfaction with one’s financial situation, and less financial distress.

Another aspect of financial socialization is gender. Studies find that parents engage in financial discussion with male children earlier, on average, than female children.[4]
Studies suggest that financial modeling (parents’ financial example) is a very effective method of financial socialization.1 Healthy financial modeling correlates with positive financial outcomes such as financial knowledge, behaviors, and capabilities. Interestingly, even parental warmth has an effect on children’s later financial behaviors.[10]
Parents who were positive financial role models for their children also tend to talk to their children about finances. Since parent-child discussion is positively associated with healthy financial behaviors for their adolescents, discussing finances with your children can also help them financially. Indeed, having parents who were open about family finances leads to less anxiety about finances in emerging adulthood.[11]
Takeaways:
1. Talk to Your Kids About Money. Although money can be taboo to discuss, it is very important for your children’s financial future that you are open with them about money and help them understand how to flourish financially. This could include teaching children how to budget and/or sharing how you budget for the family, and teaching them financial principles such as compound interest or what inflation is. For specific tips on how to do this, see these articles
2. Work on Developing Healthy Financial Habits Yourself. In the words of a wise man, monkey see, money do. Thousands of years later, the remnants of this wise philosophy reign on. In other words, your children will likely follow in your financial footsteps, so it is crucial to show them the right way to live financially. As your children see you implementing regular financial habits such as discussing money with your partner weekly, creating and following a budget, regularly putting money towards savings and retirement, etc., they are more likely to acquire these habits themselves.
3. Give Your Child the Opportunity to Practice Using Money. Parenting practices such as giving allowance, opening a savings account with your child, helping them to budget their own money, etc. can help them to not only conceptually understand money through your discussions but also to internalize the important financial principles you are teaching them. Helping your child be financially self-sufficient now can pay dividends for their future.
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